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Case Studies In The "I Don't Have A Sleep Problem But I Am Always Tired Syndrome"

" I had my eyes open but it seems I was just dazed while driving. When I hit the curb it startled me. I really don't want to have a bad accident like this. What's happening to me? I searched on the internet. Could I be having seizures?

" I get dizzy sometimes when I stand up suddenly. I also get a lot of headaches. Could I have a brain tumor? I crave food all day long but I don't like eating breakfast except for a can of Coke, and then I have a Rockstar at lunch. I have a mean teacher in school. The class is so boring I keep falling asleep. My grades are dropping but that's because of my teacher."

" I doze off at work and can't help it. My supervisor is mad at me. I have no idea why that happens. I try my best to stay alert at work. Please help me. I don't want to lose my job."

" I operate heavy machinery. I drink energy drinks every hour to stay alert. When I go home I have lots of chores to do. By that time I feel I am completely spent. It seems that my body is just falling apart. I used to have so much energy.

" I don't need much sleep. I wake up on my own at 3 am. My mind is ready to go. I do my problem solving at that time. But my mind stops working later in the day. I don't know what's wrong with me. My blood sugar levels keep fluctuating and my blood pressure has been high. It never used to be like this. Whats happening to me?"

" I nurse my baby twice at night, and in between I sleep really soundly. But I am really tired with no energy all day. I have not even gone back to work yet but I get so tired just doing the small chores at home with my baby during the day. I try to nap when she is sleeping but it is so hard to turn off the mind just any time.  Could I be depressed?"

" I have no time for fun in a day. I go to school, then sports, then I do home work. I am so tired. Life is a drag. All I can do to socialize is be on facebook and text my friends when I am in bed. They are all up till 2 am. They don't have any problems, and it takes me a long time to fall asleep any way. Why am I having problems?"

" I drink half a pot of coffee in the morning and a couple of cans of soda in the afternoon. I like the taste of these drinks. I have put on 20 pounds in the last year. I think I need to exercise more. I sleep just fine. I need to have the TV on all night to sleep well and I wake up to go to the bathroom a couple times. No big deal, right?"

" I just crave chocolate. I love desserts. I have put on a lot of weight and I feel tired all the time. I sleep just fine but I am not a morning person. Everyone in my family is that way. Our minds work best at night."

" My whole family is feeling a lack of energy. We are all a tired, sickly bunch. Could it be something toxic in our house, like black mold? My wife snores so loudly she keeps waking me up. She says I snore even louder. My son snores too. Its so funny our house sounds like a train station at night. It's hilarious. "

" I am under a lot of stress. I am having trouble at my job because I can't finish my projects in time ever. My girlfriend is not happy with me because I have completely lost interest in sex. I am so tired all the time. I sleep fine. It just takes me a couple hours to fall asleep so I watch TV in bed. Is that a problem?"

" My husband is the one with the sleep problem not me. He works on his computer all night. I have started sleeping in a separate room because I have to go to work the next morning. I let my cat crawl into bed with me. I don't like to be alone in bed. What I don't get is why I feel I have no energy? I can't enjoy anything any more. My regular doctor prescribed an antidepressant but it has not helped so far. Could I have some bad disease?"

Sleep is the glue that holds the body and mind together. They did not realize it until they saw a sleep doctor who could put two and two together for them.

Its time to wake up from the slumber! Pun intended.

Deep Relaxation Training at Sehatu Sleep, designed with sleep medicine and psychology principles, empowers people by giving them skills to turn the mind switch on and off on command and to relax when needed. Classes can be attended via Skype.

Sehatu Sleep Granite Bay CASehatu Sleep and Yoga Studio, located in Granite Bay, CA,  also provides a variety of Yoga classes, including Yin, Gentle and Restorative Yoga, as well as Meditation classes, for individuals who are interested in practicing a healthy lifestyle at any age, starting at any time in their life at any skill level. 

 

 

Is Retirement A Ticket to Freedom From The Rules of Life?

"I am retired. I earned it. I have no worries. I can do what I want, right?"

If you are fortunate enough to be financially, physically and emotionally secure in retirement, does it truly mean freedom?

I have had a number of patients lately, retired, relatively healthy individuals, complaining of being tired all the time, with no energy to participate in activities by themselves or with their partners in life. They feel sick, unhealthy, as if their bodies are all of a sudden falling apart. Their relationships are badly affected. All other factors being equal, the common characteristic among them has been the sense of being free from the rules the body was designed to follow.

Of course, my area of interest being sleep, that is the issue I am concerned with here. Once retired, these individuals having undergone a dramatic shift in their daily routine and lose track of what they need to do to stay healthy, energized and functioning.

They have variable bed times, wake up when they want, go to sleep when they want, take naps during the day when they want or even uncontrollably fall asleep for being sleep deprived. Caffeine, alcohol, Benadryl, antidepressants and sleeping pills are frequently being used. They often have planned well financially to live in retirement but in the process of making enough money to retire, they failed to plan for activites that would give them the motivation to keep on living a healthy life. They have either no hobbies and no planned activites, or have interests that are sedentary.

In contrast, I mistakenly believed for a long time that the only major age group susceptible to this problem was young adults and adolescents. In fact retirees seem to be suffering even more. Aging bodies, even if otherwise healthy, require better upkeep, maintenance and care. Younger bodies can take a lot of beating and still keep ticking.

If you are retired or close to retirement, know that if you retire in your 60's, you may have another forty or more years to live if you take care of yourself. You want those years to be healthy, happy and functional. To achieve that goal, you need a daily routine of activities. Scheduled exercise, yoga, meditation and participation in social activities are all included.

If you are young and retirement seems like a distant future, plan ahead; not only financially for those forty years after retirement, but to stay alive, healthy, happy and able to care for yourself. Cultivate some active interests. Learn some skills and develop hobbies and interests that are unrelated to your area of work. Keeping active and on a daily routine during retirement keeps you young. You owe it to yourself.

(Sehatu Sleep and Yoga Studio provides Gentle, Restorative and Yin Yoga classes, as well as Meditation classes for individuals who are interested in practicing a healthy lifestyle at any age, starting at any time in their life with any skill level.

Deep Relaxation Training at Sehatu Sleep, designed with sleep medicine and psychology principles in mind, empowers people by giving them skills to turn the mind switch on and off on command and to relax when needed.)  

 

Bring it on, Life, But Only If I am Rested and Relaxed!

I have had some interesting experiences this summer. It has been a busy, exciting, disturbing, hectic, troubling and inspiring summer. I went skydiving (for the third time) with my wife and son. Exciting. Our son was in a car accident, totaling the long time family vehicle. Scary. Our long time dearly loved family dog of ten years died abruptly. Disturbing. You probably get an idea of the wide variety of these experiences. You may identify with some of them too.

Rather than going into the minor details, my goal is to point out how experiences shape our lives. What life throws our way is not in our control. How hot the weather will be today or how bad the traffic will be on the way home from work are things beyond our individual control.

How we deal with what is thrown our way is critical. It also depends on what frame of mind we are in. Well rested, emotionally secure people will be able to deal with a lot of stressful events and deal with them differently than others. Suffering already from over work and stress, leading to lack of good quality sleep, many of us are left with little emotional capacity to take any more trouble and deal with it adequately.

There are people in this world who have to walk long distances for drinking water and wonder each morning if they will find the one meal for that day. There are people who have been through genocides, massacres, famines, floods, epidemics and all kinds of mass miseries inflicted on them by other people and by nature. Are they all emotionally exhausted, mentally paralyzed, unable to function, survive, move forward and build their lives? May be some, but not all.

On the other hand, there are people with every imaginable luxury of life, who would give anything to be able to take a nap, like Michael Jackson and Whitney Houston who gave their lives trying to obtain a few moments of forced, chemically induced rest for their minds.

What is the difference? The difference is in genetics, brain wiring, cultures, environment and upbringing. Given all else being equal, those of us who find themselves unable to feel emotionally secure, able to let go, calm their minds, rest and recharge to face the inflictions of everyday life, need to learn these skills. If it does not come naturally, it has to be learnt. Like a child learns to walk naturally, but has to be taught how to ride a bicycle.

It is the job of those who are in the position of helping others, to assist them in this journey. It is also the job of those who are looking for help, grasping for straws, to seek out this help. It is available. It is here. We do it every day at Sehatu Sleep and Yoga Studio.

Go, get it, wherever you can. It will make life better, easier and more fun for all.

 

 

Traveling Well and Grateful

It is better to travel well than to arrive.” Buddha

So, growing a business, any business, is hard. And, it is easier if you truly believe and have a passion for the work. If the work you do is in your essence. I know the above quote I have left at the end of the mat in classes this week can apply to anything and mostly to the big something: LIFE. It also struck me this morning... as I was going about my yard watering and playing with my dogs before the heat...it applies to growing Sehatu Sleep and Yoga, as well.

We are traveling well, Sehatu. Meeting new students, sharing our passion for Yoga and Relaxation Training, well. There is not an arrival, an outcome, beyond sharing practices and methods that have worked for us. What could be better, more authentic, than to be given the opportunity to share? Thank you.

We had a bit of a “staff meeting” a few nights ago. The time just whizzed by as we all sat around on chairs, bolsters, mats or the floor and shared like little kids our stories around Yoga and sleep. Sharing our travels that have brought us to Sehatu. Several of us commented about the energy of the space and the evening and how that sweet enthusiasm of like-minded, committed individuals, coming together was apparent. The energy you feel in your body when you know you are fully there and in your essence. I have learned to listen to that felt sense. It has helped me to travel well and to appreciate where I am today on and off the mat. Again, thank you Friendly Universe and all fellow travelers. Travel well.

Here is the Poem I have read to classes all week and a few of you asked for. “Walk Slowly”, by Danna Faulds, from Go In and In, Poems from the Heart of Yoga.

 

Walk Slowly

It only takes a reminder to breathe,

a moment to be still, and just like that,

something in me settles, softens, makes

space for imperfection. The harsh voice

of judgment drops to a whisper and I

remember again that life isn’t a relay

race; that we will all cross the finish

line; that waking up to life is what we

were born for. As many times as I

forget, catch myself charging forward

without even knowing where I’m going,

that many times I can make the choice

to stop, to breathe, and be, and walk

slowly into the mystery.

 

Sehatu Sleep Yoga Warriors...do not be afraid!

“Rejoicing in the ordinary things is not simple or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior's world.” Pema Chodron

I never fully know why I choose one particular quote verses another to leave at the end of students' mats after one of my classes. Except, it is often something I feel for myself or want to remember for myself a certain day and figure... because we are all the same... it might strike a similar chord for someone else. If not today, then maybe, on just the right day this little quote, this little slip of paper, will appear.

I realize today's quote by Pema Chodron was especially meaningful because we had so many “first time ever practicing Yoga” students in the Sehatu Sleep studio. New Yoga Warriors giving themselves ninety minutes of union with self and some self-care on a beautiful summer morning.

I will never forget what guts it took for me to get up the courage to enter my first Yoga class. And, I guess, all my “complaints” were about myself and the way I thought I had to be, or the thoughts about the way I was not that prevented an earlier Yoga journey. I thought I had to know Yoga “stuff” like how to do all the moves, etc. So, I waited until I had done Yoga tapes on my VCR at home and read a Yoga flip book that showed a practice. I fully realize, even though I had several Yoga studios in the area where I grew up, I was afraid. Afraid, I guess, to do something “wrong”...who knows, it is hard to understand fears that are really just thoughts.

So,I started my own Yoga journey much later at a gym and then took, what I perceived as, another big step and entered a Yoga studio. As I am certain today's students found, and, as I know I found in my first class: I did not need to know any “stuff”, I am enough just as I am today, and there is nothing scary about a Yoga studio, nothing scary at all. They are actually quite welcoming and sweet. And, it is their job and their purpose to share with you how you might do Yoga stuff. Rejoice.

(I do still hold a little wish I had started practicing Yoga earlier and entered the Warrior's World of Yoga in community back in the day. Even though I know, as Yoga has taught me, whatever day you do choose, is the perfect day for you!)

Congratulations Sehatu Sleep Yoga students...you are Warriors.

Yoga and The Mind Body Connection

Sehatu Sleep Granite Bay CAI attended the first Gentle Yoga class at Sehatu Sleep this morning. I was a student. Iram, the teacher and co-owner, had not taught many classes indoors before. She said after the class she was a bit nervous. I never would have known it. From the first word she spoke, I was at ease. Iram's voice is very soothing and it carries an involvement in what she is saying. We laughed afterwords about how she had to remind herself during the class that she was the teacher. She was so connected. I loved it and realized that is such an important quality, to me, in a yoga class; the teacher be in union/connected to what they are teaching. Left or right, foot here or there…foot anywhere…does not help me to drop into the present moment, my practice. What helps me to feel safe and comfortable in my practice, in the present moment, is when I feel the teacher is in a similar union/yoking. I felt there was meaning and purpose behind every word Iram shared. The definition of Yoga is that connection to body, mind and spirit. I want my teacher in a Yoga class to be connected, too. I enjoyed the gentle sequence and felt refreshed and renewed after the class. I even brought a friend by later in the day to see the studio and consider taking class ! es from Iram, and at Sehatu Sleep.
(Okay, so now I am a blogger and Yoga Pusher, too.) Thank you, Iram…I'll be back!!!
This entry is by our new contributor Joan Marks, a senior yoga teacher and integrative restoration practitioner. She can be reached at joan@sehatusleep.com.

Sehatu Sleep Opens its doors to the public on June 1, 2012

Sehatu Sleep Granite Bay CA We will open our doors to the public on June 1, 2012.

Registration is now open for introductory sessions for Deep Relaxation Training. Timings and days are listed on our calendar and classes pages. Pre payment of $25 for the 2 hour session is required, valued at $50. Please contact us at info@sehatusleep.com, call us at 916-742-7718 or schedule online by going to our classes page.

Registration is now open for Yoga classes. Timings, types of yoga and instructors are listed in our calendar and classes pages. Please contact us at info@sehatusleep.com, call us at 916-742-7718 or schedule online by going to our classes page.